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What is Love Bombing? Causes, Signs and Response

Fahim Chughtai
Last updated: 2023/03/04 at 11:03 PM
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Love bombing is a tactic used in manipulative relationships, in which a person showers their partner with excessive affection, attention, and praise in order to control and manipulate them. This tactic has been used in various forms in both personal and cult-like settings.

The term “love bombing” was popularized in the 1970s and 1980s by the cult-watching community and researchers studying manipulative group dynamics. It has since been adopted by mental health professionals to describe this type of behavior in abusive relationships.

What is Love bombing?

In the context of narcissistic manipulative tactics, love bombing refers to a behavior in which a narcissistic individual showers their romantic partner with excessive affection, attention, and praise in the early stages of the relationship.

This intense and sudden display of affection is designed to manipulate the victim into feeling a false sense of security, trust, and emotional attachment, allowing the narcissistic individual to control and exploit their partner.

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The love bombing stage is often followed by a “devaluation” phase in which the narcissistic individual begins to withdraw their affection and put the victim down, causing emotional turmoil and confusion. Love bombing is a hallmark of narcissistic abuse and can be used to groom victims for further exploitation.

Causes of Love bombing

The causes of love bombing can vary, but often it is a behavior employed by individuals who have an insecure attachment style or who possess manipulative or narcissistic traits.

Some people may use love bombing as a means to quickly establish control and power over their partner, to meet their own emotional needs, or to fulfill a desire for instant gratification and adoration.

Additionally, some individuals may have learned this behavior through past traumas or unhealthy relationships and continue to employ it in their future interactions.

It is important to note that love bombing is not a symptom of a mental illness, but rather a harmful and abusive behavior.

Signs of love bombing

Here are some signs of love bombing:

1. Overwhelming affection

Overwhelming affection is a key characteristic of love bombing in a relationship with a narcissist.
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Overwhelming affection is a key characteristic of love bombing in a relationship with a narcissist. In this scenario, the narcissist showers the victim with excessive affection, attention, and praise in order to manipulate them into feeling a false sense of security, trust, and emotional attachment. 

This affection may come in the form of constant compliments, over-the-top gestures of love and kindness, or an intense focus on the victim that can feel suffocating. The goal of the overwhelming affection is to create a dependency on the part of the victim, making it easier for the narcissist to control and exploit them later on.

 Once the victim is emotionally invested, the narcissist may switch to a pattern of devaluation, criticism, and abuse, making it difficult for the victim to leave the relationship

2. Constant praise

 The Narcissist constantly tells you how amazing, special, and perfect you are.

Constant praise is a common tactic used in love bombing by a narcissist in a romantic relationship.
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Constant praise is a common tactic used in love bombing by a narcissist in a romantic relationship. The narcissist provides an excessive amount of compliments and admiration, making the victim feel special and adored.

This constant praise is intended to manipulate the victim into feeling good about themselves and the relationship, creating a false sense of security and emotional attachment.

However, the praise is often insincere and designed to control the victim, rather than being a genuine expression of admiration. The victim may feel flattered by the attention and begin to rely on it for validation, making it easier for the narcissist to exploit and control them.

Over time, the constant praise may become less frequent and may be replaced with criticism and devaluation, causing emotional turmoil and confusion for the victim.

3. Quick commitment

 The Narcissist wants to move the relationship forward at an accelerated pace, often talking about a future together within a short period of time.

Quick commitment is another hallmark of love bombing in a relationship with a narcissist.
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Quick commitment is another hallmark of love bombing in a relationship with a narcissist. The narcissist may pressure the victim into making a fast and serious commitment, such as moving in together or getting engaged, often within a short period of time.

This sudden push for commitment is intended to make the victim feel like the relationship is serious and secure, and to create a false sense of emotional attachment.

The quick commitment may also serve to isolate the victim, making it harder for them to leave the relationship or seek outside support. The victim may feel obligated to stay in the relationship because of the investment they have made, making it easier for the narcissist to continue to control and manipulate them.

Over time, the quick commitment may be revealed as a trap, as the relationship becomes abusive and the victim finds it difficult to leave.

4. Isolation

The Narcissist wants to spend all their time with you, and may encourage you to cut ties with friends and family.

Isolation is a common tactic used in love bombing by a narcissist in a romantic relationship.
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Isolation is a common tactic used in love bombing by a narcissist in a romantic relationship. The narcissist may encourage the victim to cut ties with friends, family, or other support systems, and to spend all their time with the narcissist instead. This isolation serves several purposes for the narcissist.

First, it makes the victim more dependent on the narcissist for emotional support and validation. Second, it limits the victim’s access to outside perspectives and support, making it harder for them to recognize the manipulation and abuse in the relationship.

Third, it makes it easier for the narcissist to control and manipulate the victim, as there are fewer people in their life who can challenge or question the relationship.

The victim may feel like they are building a special connection with the narcissist, but over time, the isolation can lead to feelings of loneliness, helplessness, and emotional turmoil.

It can also make it difficult for the victim to leave the relationship or seek outside help when the abuse becomes more severe.

5. Jealousy

The Narcissist becomes extremely jealous and possessive, trying to control your every move.

Jealousy is a common tactic used in love bombing by a narcissist in a romantic relationship. The narcissist may become extremely jealous and possessive, trying to control the victim’s every move and limiting their ability to have outside relationships or connections.

This jealousy may come across as caring and protective at first, but over time it becomes controlling and oppressive.

The goal of the jealousy is to make the victim feel like they are the most important person in the narcissist’s life, and to create a sense of attachment and dependence. The victim may feel like they have to walk on eggshells to avoid triggering the jealousy, which makes it harder for them to leave the relationship or seek outside help.

The jealousy can also be used as a tool for emotional manipulation, as the narcissist may use it to make the victim feel guilty, responsible, or ashamed for their actions.

6. Excessive gifts

The Narcissist gives you excessive gifts, often in an attempt to buy your affection.

Excessive gifts are a common tactic used in love bombing by a narcissist in a romantic relationship.
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Excessive gifts are a common tactic used in love bombing by a narcissist in a romantic relationship. The narcissist may shower the victim with expensive or thoughtful gifts, seemingly out of nowhere, as a way of gaining their affection and trust.

These gifts may come in the form of jewelry, clothes, vacations, or other luxury items, and are designed to make the victim feel special and appreciated.

The goal of the excessive gifts is to create a false sense of security and emotional attachment between the victim and the narcissist. The victim may feel like they are in a fairy tale relationship, and may begin to rely on the gifts for validation and self-worth.

Over time, the gifts may become less frequent or may be replaced with criticism and devaluation, causing the victim to feel confused and unsure about the relationship.

In some cases, the gifts may also be used as a way to control the victim, as the narcissist may expect the victim to be grateful and obedient in return. This can make it harder for the victim to leave the relationship or seek outside help, as they may feel guilty or beholden to the narcissist

7. Intensity

 The Narcissist’s affection and attention are intense and all-consuming, leaving little room for anything else in your life.

Intensity is a hallmark of love bombing in a relationship with a narcissist. The relationship may seem like a rollercoaster of emotions, with the narcissist alternating between lavish displays of affection and attention, and periods of coldness, distance, or even cruelty.

This emotional intensity can be overwhelming for the victim, who may feel like they are on a high when things are going well, but quickly fall into a low when things turn sour.

The goal of the intensity is to create a sense of emotional dependency on the narcissist, and to keep the victim off-balance and unable to think critically about the relationship.

The victim may become addicted to the emotional highs and lows, and may feel like they need the narcissist to feel complete. Over time, the emotional intensity may become abusive, with the narcissist using it to manipulate, control, and exploit the victim.

In some cases, the emotional intensity may escalate to the point of obsession, with the narcissist becoming jealous, possessive, or even dangerous. The victim may feel trapped in the relationship, unable to leave or seek outside help due to fear, guilt, or a sense of obligation.

The intensity of the relationship can also make it difficult for the victim to maintain their own identity, leading to feelings of confusion, anxiety, and depression.

8. Disregard for boundaries

 The Narcissist disregards your boundaries and does not respect your personal space.

Disregard for boundaries is a common tactic used in love bombing by a narcissist in a romantic relationship. The narcissist may ignore or dismiss the victim’s personal boundaries, and may insist on being involved in every aspect of the victim’s life.

This can include intrusive behaviors such as checking the victim’s phone or email, demanding to know their whereabouts at all times, or controlling their relationships with friends and family.

The goal of disregarding boundaries is to gain control and power over the victim, and to make the victim feel like they are completely dependent on the narcissist.

The victim may feel like they have to constantly compromise their own values, needs, and desires in order to please the narcissist, which can lead to feelings of self-doubt and loss of identity. Over time, the disregard for boundaries may become abusive, with the narcissist using it to manipulate, control, and exploit the victim.

In some cases, the disregard for boundaries may escalate to the point of abuse, with the narcissist using physical, emotional, or psychological means to control the victim. The victim may feel trapped in the relationship, unable to leave or seek outside help due to fear, guilt, or a sense of obligation.

Disregard for boundaries can also make it difficult for the victim to maintain healthy relationships with others, leading to feelings of isolation and loneliness.

9. Emotional manipulation

 The Narcissist uses emotional manipulation to control your thoughts, feelings, and actions.

Emotional manipulation is a common tactic used in love bombing by a narcissist in a romantic relationship. The narcissist may use various tactics, such as guilt-tripping, gaslighting, or playing the victim, in order to control and manipulate the victim’s emotions.

This can include making the victim feel responsible for the narcissist’s happiness, blaming the victim for their own problems, or convincing the victim that their own perceptions and feelings are incorrect.

The goal of emotional manipulation is to gain power and control over the victim, and to make the victim feel like they are dependent on the narcissist for their own emotional well-being.

The victim may feel like they have to constantly walk on eggshells or make excuses for the narcissist’s behavior in order to maintain the relationship, which can lead to feelings of self-doubt, anxiety, and depression.

Over time, the emotional manipulation may become abusive, with the narcissist using it to control and exploit the victim.

Examples of love bombing

Here are five examples of love bombing:

  1. Buying expensive gifts for no reason
  2. Sending frequent text messages or emails throughout the day
  3. Complimenting the person excessively
  4. Making grand romantic gestures like taking them on a surprise vacation
  5. Going out of their way to do favors for the person

How long does love bombing last?

The duration of love bombing in a relationship with a narcissist can vary, but it typically lasts until the victim begins to see through the manipulations and confronts the narcissist about their behavior. At this point, the narcissist may either continue the love bombing in an attempt to regain control, or they may switch to a different tactic, such as devaluation or gaslighting, in order to maintain control.

In some cases, love bombing may last for a relatively short period of time, such as a few weeks or months. In other cases, it may last for several years, particularly if the victim is deeply invested in the relationship and is unable or unwilling to recognize the manipulations.

Ultimately, the length of time that love bombing lasts will depend on various factors, including the nature of the relationship, the victim’s level of self-awareness, and the tactics used by the narcissist.

It is important to seek help and support if you are experiencing love bombing in a relationship, as it can have a significant impact on your emotional well-being and sense of self.

Difference between natural love and love bombing

Natural love and love bombing are two very different experiences in a relationship.

Natural love is characterized by feelings of warmth, affection, and connection that develop over time as two people get to know each other and build a relationship. It is typically characterized by mutual respect, understanding, and support, and is based on a foundation of honesty, trust, and vulnerability.

Natural love is built on a slow, steady progression of emotional intimacy, and is typically characterized by a sense of balance and mutual reciprocation.

Love bombing, on the other hand, is characterized by an intense and overwhelming display of affection that is designed to manipulate and control the victim. Love bombing is typically used by a narcissistic or sociopathic individual to quickly create an emotional bond with the victim, in order to increase their dependence on the relationship.

Love bombing is often characterized by an unbalanced dynamic, where the victim is showered with attention and affection, while the narcissist remains emotionally detached and in control.

In short, natural love is based on a genuine connection between two people, while love bombing is based on a manipulative and one-sided dynamic designed to control and exploit the victim.

Why Love Bombing is so dangerous?

Love bombing is dangerous because it creates a false sense of reality as it creates an intense mental and emotional bond in a short amount of time. It carries the potential for manipulation, control, and psychological abuse, exploiting one’s vulnerabilities, making them more susceptible to manipulation and harmful behavior.

While it can feel gratifying in the beginning due to its intensity and promise, those involved could find themselves emotionally bonded to someone with unhealthy values or motives, staying in an unbalanced relationship where the manipulative partner takes advantage of their vulnerabilities.

How to heal after being love bombed?

Healing after being love bombed can be a difficult and challenging process, but it is possible. Here are some steps that may help:

  1. Acknowledge and validate your feelings: Allow yourself to feel your emotions, and don’t dismiss them or try to push them aside. Recognize that what you experienced was real, and that your feelings are valid.
  2. Seek support: Surround yourself with people who love and care about you, and seek professional help if necessary. Talking to a therapist or counselor can help you process your feelings and heal from the trauma of the experience.
  3. Cut off contact with the narcissist: It is important to end all contact with the person who love bombed you, in order to protect yourself from further emotional harm. This may be difficult, especially if you still have feelings for them, but it is necessary for your healing process.
  4. Focus on self-care: Take care of your physical, emotional, and mental well-being by engaging in activities that bring you joy and fulfillment. Focus on building a healthy and positive self-image, and practice self-compassion and self-love.
  5. Learn about healthy relationships: Educate yourself on what a healthy relationship looks like, and make a commitment to seek out healthy relationships in the future.
  6. Set boundaries: Make a commitment to protect your emotional well-being by setting firm boundaries and sticking to them. Learn to recognize manipulative behavior, and take steps to protect yourself from future love bombing experiences.

Remember that healing from love bombing is a process, and it may take time. Be kind to yourself and give yourself the time and space you need to heal and move forward.

Last words

Love bombing is a manipulation technique employed with the intent to instill in the victim a sense of overwhelming love and admiration so that they will not leave. It is often used by narcissists and sociopaths in relationships, as well as cult leaders on their followers.

If you think you may be a victim of love bombing, it is important to take steps to protect yourself emotionally and physically. Talk to a friend or therapist about what you are experiencing, and consider taking out a restraining order if necessary. Remember, you deserve to be loved unconditionally – without strings attached.

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