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5 Ways to Respond After Being Discarded By a Narcissist

Fahim Chughtai
Last updated: 2023/03/04 at 9:29 PM
By Fahim Chughtai Narcissistic abuse
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5 Ways to Respond After Being Discarded By a Narcissist
5 Ways to Respond After Being Discarded By a Narcissist

Dealing with the aftermath of being discarded by a narcissist can be an incredibly difficult and painful experience. Narcissistic abuse can leave you feeling confused, hurt, and betrayed. It can also leave you questioning your self-worth and doubting your ability to form healthy relationships. But despite the pain and trauma, there are ways to respond and move forward.

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1. Allow Yourself to Grieve2. Set Boundaries3. Focus on Self-Care4. Practice Mindfulness5. Seek SupportFinal Thoughts Subscribe Newsletter!

In this article, I’ll explore five ways to respond after being discarded by a narcissist. These strategies can help you begin to heal, set healthy boundaries, and reclaim your life.

Whether you’re just starting to recover from narcissistic abuse or you’re further along in your healing journey, these tips can help you navigate the aftermath of a toxic relationship. So, let’s dive in and explore five ways to respond after being discarded by a narcissist. 

1. Allow Yourself to Grieve

The first and most important step in responding to being discarded by a narcissist is to allow yourself to grieve. Being discarded can be incredibly painful, and you need to acknowledge and process your feelings before you can move forward.

It’s natural to feel a range of emotions, including sadness, anger, and confusion. Allow yourself to feel all of these emotions without judgment or shame.

Example: Jane had been in a relationship with a narcissist for several years when he suddenly discarded her. She was devastated and felt like her world had come crashing down. She allowed herself to cry, scream, and journal about her feelings. She also talked to a therapist and joined a support group for survivors of narcissistic abuse.

2. Set Boundaries

Setting boundaries is essential when dealing with a narcissist. Narcissists often try to control and manipulate their victims, so it’s important to be clear about what you will and won’t tolerate in the relationship. Setting boundaries can be difficult, but it’s an essential step in protecting your emotional well-being.

Example: After being discarded by her narcissistic partner, Jane decided to set clear boundaries. She told him that she would no longer tolerate his verbal abuse and gaslighting.

She also told him that she would no longer allow him to manipulate her into feeling guilty or responsible for his actions. When he tried to violate her boundaries, she calmly and firmly reiterated her expectations.

3. Focus on Self-Care

Focusing on self-care is crucial when dealing with the aftermath of being discarded by a narcissist. It’s important to prioritize your physical, emotional, and mental health. This can include things like exercise, healthy eating, therapy, meditation, and spending time with supportive friends and family.

Example: After being discarded by her narcissistic partner, Jane made a commitment to focus on self-care. She started going to therapy, joined a support group for survivors of narcissistic abuse, and started practicing yoga and meditation. She also started journaling and writing poetry as a way to express her emotions and process her experiences.

4. Practice Mindfulness

Mindfulness can be a powerful tool for dealing with the aftermath of being discarded by a narcissist. Mindfulness involves being present in the moment and observing your thoughts and emotions without judgment. This can help you cultivate self-awareness and compassion for yourself.

Example: After being discarded by her narcissistic partner, Jane started practicing mindfulness. She downloaded a mindfulness app and started meditating every morning. She also started paying attention to her thoughts and emotions throughout the day, noticing when she was triggered by memories or feelings related to the relationship.

Instead of getting caught up in these thoughts and emotions, she practiced observing them without judgment and then redirecting her attention to the present moment.

5. Seek Support

Dealing with the aftermath of being discarded by a narcissist can be isolating and lonely. It’s important to seek support from trusted friends and family, as well as mental health professionals. A therapist who specializes in narcissistic abuse can be especially helpful in providing validation, support, and guidance.

Example: After being discarded by her narcissistic partner, Jane sought support from a therapist who specialized in narcissistic abuse. She also joined a support group for survivors of narcissistic abuse, where she found a sense of community and validation. She also leaned on her friends and family for support, talking to them about her experiences and seeking their advice and perspective.

Final Thoughts

In conclusion, being discarded by a narcissist can be a painful and traumatic experience. However, it’s important to remember that you are not alone and that there are ways to respond and move forward. By allowing yourself to grieve, setting boundaries, focusing on self-care, practicing mindfulness, and seeking support, you can begin to heal and reclaim your life.

Remember, it’s not your fault that you were discarded by a narcissist. Narcissists have a personality disorder that makes it difficult for them to empathize with others and form healthy relationships. You deserve to be treated with respect and kindness, and there are people who will treat you that way.

If you or someone you know is experiencing narcissistic abuse, it’s important to seek help. Reach out to a therapist, support group, or hotline for guidance and support. You don’t have to go through this alone, and there is hope for healing and recovery.

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